Single thoughts

Authoring 3 blogs can be nerve racking. For one thing, I really don’t have enough time to update all three every single day. It usually takes weeks for me to write a new post and 3-4 days to visit the other two. However, I must say that the comments I have been receiving are so amusing. Like in one of my posts, I wrote something about my relationship status and somebody told me that if I would pray for a boyfriend, God will surely give me one.

This got me thinking about my prayers. I realized that in my 27 years of existence, never would I have thought to ask for a boyfriend from Him. Never. Aside from the usual things like health, safety, love, peace, etc., material things are a staple in my everyday pleas.  Another good reason why you shouldn’t read my blog because as you can see, I’m not a good role model :(

I have asked for lots of money, gadgets, condo unit, Mitsubishi Lancer, grand vacation, etc. and even for simple things like recently, I’m becoming obsessed with  outdoor chairs. I went to SM Mall of Asia with a friend last Sunday to check the prices. I saw a rocking chair which is worth P3,900. Quite expensive but I loved it and I prayed for it. My brother-in-law who knows a good carpenter offered to request a custom rocking chair for me. Why do I want it? Because I would like to spend my afternoons writing while sitting pretty in an outdoor chair. I want it to be made of hardwood to ensure that it will last for many years.

Funny that I asked for an outdoor chair but never prayed for a boyfriend :)  Sometimes, I get annoyed at myself for not being certain if I want to be in a relationship. But that simple comment made me realized that, at this point, I’m not really looking for a boyfriend. The pressure from peers and my mother has confused me. But now I’m sure it’s not what I really want, at least, NOT YET. My prayers are my solid evidence because when I want something so bad, I’d really pray for it. Anyway, I think it’s normal to be a woman and choose a rocking chair which will cradle me rather than a man who will make me cry ;)

Comments

  1. YanaH says:

    it will come when the time is right..
    let love find you, shoudlnt exhaust yourself trying to find it.. :d

    i dont think it comes with the age.. im almost 27, ive met a few wrong ones still havent found the right one.. im not worried :d if there really is someone out there for me, kahit pa umabot ako ng 90 year old.. oks lang hehehehe…

    i guess ive said too much..

    just passin by..

  2. theres no need to worry, it will come, it will find you before you know it :)

  3. claudiopoi says:

    yes, what they say is true! love is rare, but relationships are overrated! :)

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